4/2/12

Say a Prayer

Home sick today--meaning it was quiet and I had time to think.  Just reflecting on some hard realities.  Life is never a smooth road.

Within the last 6 months three families have had to make hard decisions regarding loved ones with dementia.
My Dad finally hit bottom and realized this past week that he can no longer be the sole caregiver for Mom.  It's the going without a full night's sleep and Mom's agitation and anxiety that are wearing.

Thank you to my sister, Paula, and my brother, John, for stepping in and handling the crisis.  Mom will be moved, within the same assisted living care facility, to the side for those needing more care.  Dad will be staying in his apartment.  He will spend time with Mom during the day, but he can retreat to his own place at night and whenever he needs a rest.  Mom will get the care she needs, from people she already knows.

Please keep them both in your prayers as they enter this new phase of life.

My brother-in-law, Gene, was also recently placed in a facility for people afflicted by dementia.  I don't think he's even 60 years old yet.  Doesn't seem fair  - to be so young and dealing with this disease.  Double whammy--Lynn, his wife, is dealing with MS.   Say a prayer for the Corrie family when you have a moment!

Lastly, a friend and former neighbor, Amir was diagnosed with a brain tumor that has over the past few years brought on dementia.  His wife, Kim, is now looking at placing this 52 year old man in an assisted care facility for dementia patients.

All of these families need support from family and friends.  God has placed people in their lives to help bridge the gap, but ongoing prayer for continued challenges will be appreciated.

Life is hard.  I am thankful for my family and friends.  And I am reminded through them that God is faithful!  Amen.